Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.”

Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more.

You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself.

Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around.

You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever.

if i had to beg, i beg you the luckiest guy in this world, please don’t break her heart…

This is my advice, hope it will calm your heart J

1.       Life is about choose one option from many option, and taking the risk about that choice. Kalo kamu emang udah yakin sama seseorang, maka berilah orang itu kepercayaanmu sepenuhnya. Jika orang tersebut menyianyiakan kepercayaanmu, maka itu bukan pilihan yang tepat buatmu, kamu harus memilih lagi, dan resiko dari kamu memilih ya sakit hati, tapi sakit hati itulah yg bawa kamu ke pilihan yang paling tepat, untuk menuju happy ending.

2.       Kalo kamu udah percaya sama orang lain, maka jangan menaruh rasa curiga berlebihan sama orang itu, karna nantinya orang itu akan merasa terkekang dan berpikiran who do you think you are? You are just a new person in my life J dia pasti punya banyak temen, ga Cuma cowo doang, biarlah dia jaga komunikasi sama temen cewenya, mungkin temen deketnya kaya kamu sama hosen J ga mungkin juga kan dia Cuma kontekan sama temen cowonya? Berikan dia kebebasan dalam bergaul, buat mantau iseng2 aja nanya “itu siapa?” kalo dia emang terbuka dia pasti cerita siapa dia dan gimana sejarah pertemanan mereka, easy right? Nothing to worry about J

3.       Kadang dalam hidup kita ga perlu terlalu mikir sama setiap hal, kalo kebanyakan pikiran nantinya pikiran kamu bakal nyabang kemana2 dan bikin sebuah scenario buruk yg banyak banget, padahal itu belom tentu kejadian, nantinya kamu bakal stress dan sedih berkepanjangan, hidup itu untuk dijalani setiap harinya, jalani saja, nikmati setiap detiknya J

4.       Memang kadang dalam hidup apa yg kita rencanakan dan kita harapkan ga sesuai dengan kenyataan, malah jauh dari harapan dan mengecewakan, maka dari itu kamu harus siap ngadepin scenario terburuk, jadi kalo kamu ‘terjatuh’ kamu bisa bangkit dengan segera tanpa harus ‘merintih’ terus-terusan, karna kamu udah siap J

5.       Untuk bisa nerima scenario terburuk itu kamu harus bisa nerima kenyataan bahwa ga semua yang kita pengen bisa kita dapetin, tapi kita harus dan berhak untuk berusaha ngedapetin apa yang kita pengenin, inget, disaat kamu ngerasa kamu berjuang sendiri, sesungguhnya ada Tuhan yg selalu ngebantu kamu, ada “malaikat” yang dikirimkannya buat nenangin hatimu saat kamu tenggelam dalam kesedihan, malaikat itu bisa berwujud mama, mas, temen2 deketmu, all you need to do is sharing with them, jadi pemikiranmu ‘terpagari’ dan mungkin pendapat mereka bisa nenangin hatimu.

6.       Pernah denger quote soal “cinta itu kayak pasir, semakin kamu genggam kuat2, dia akan runtuh perlahan”, pikirin baik2 

7.       And the last, belajarlah dari pengalamanmu, Tuhan udah ngasih kamu banyak pelajaran selama kamu hidup, belajar juga dari pengalaman orang lain, karna kadang kita ga perlu turun ke dasar lubang untuk tau seberapa dalamnya lubang tersebut.

“memang lebih baik untuk membawa kebahagiaan untuk orang lain, salah satu caranya dengan ‘mengorbankan kebahagiaanmu sendiri’, tapi jangan terlalu sibuk untuk itu, karna kadang kita lupa untuk membahagiakan diri kita sendiri”